Growing Strong Character
yesterday. Children who sit in fifth grade class was not a star anymore. In fact, for four consecutive years, he has always been a champion first overall winner in the class even at school. But this year he must give up his position was taken over by Rina bench friends. He must be willing was ranked to third in class. Mrs.Aisah the mother was also having the same feelings, though perhaps not as sad as Andi. But he did not dodge if there is something different when the names entered his disciples who were called to the front of the class for trophy awards favorite no longer a child.
However, when she saw Andi looked at him with the view sadly on his way home he also later determined, "I should arouse the spirit of Andi."
* Difficult Situation
What do think Mrs.Aisah according to psychologist Mrs.Ratna Juwita Diploma Psych, very true. He revealed that the parents especially the mother should have a hardness of more than his son. What should be done is to re-motivate Mrs.Aisah the child to be better in the future. Not even scolded her for not able to be the best.
"That way the child will have the ability to rise from adversity that occurs in its development, and also the ability to adapt in difficult situations or remain strong in stressful situations.
Mrs. Ratna likens the slump experienced pain like Andi. Pain is of no use, one of them to boost immunity. Similarly, when we've been in a collapsed condition, we will be stronger when faced with something similar, "he explained.
Mrs. Ratna judge, usually a lot of people have a wrong view to implement the child's upbringing. Not a few of those who think the child will be strong and tough when as a child entered the dormitory.
In addition there are also people feel if the child hugged the child will become weak, or if the child will be praised become complacent He believes the application of any other parenting is when parents assume that children should be encouraged to be the best in any case at the school, in the neighborhood and others.
"Not many parents are aware if every child is unique. They basically have the potential, talents, strengths, and interests of each characteristic, such as singing or social skills." Everyone should realize that every person must have a deficiency. "What should be noted that it was not lack, but rather to how to optimize the advantages of the child."
* Three Characteristics
Mrs. Ratna Juwita quoting Mr.Grotberg E on several characteristics to enhance the ability of an individual self. "The words must be understood in improving the ability is, I have people I trust and love, I am a lovable person, and I can find Airways to solve the problem. "
The word means a child I have felt a personal connection that can be trusted, care and treatment are obvious, like the family rules and values of good and true. Children should also feel that he had a role model that gives a good example.
"Children often look ten years older brother came home at 11 pm. When he entered the same age with her brother, then he will ask the same rights." That means, kids did the same with the example of him.
'While I am a child feels a sense of people who loved and liked. Here the child should be taught to love others, capable of empathy, and willing to help others. Children also must have a sense of pride in itself, capable of independent and responsible, full of hope, confidence, and confidence.
The latter I mean the child canfeel able to communicate, solve problems, organize and manage the feelings and wishes exactly, and can take into account the state of feeling of self and others.
Children are also expected to seek and establish relationships with other people who can be trusted. "When, for example, children playing ball, offended then fights do not directly denounce or scold the child let the child learn to solve their problems.
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