Become a Visionary Person

   When he was 17 years, renowned novelist Sidney Sheldon had attempted suicide. Things that drive he did that was because he felt unhappy in her life .
   Her goal now is to go to college and become a writer. However, his wish was like hitting a wall because the family did not support the economy. When I go home, he prepares his suicide attempt. At that time his parents visited the house saudaranya.Ketika want them all gone, he issued a beverage that can be immediately turn it off.
    When about to drink it, his father suddenly to appear. They both  equally surprised. Sheldon did not think his father would return again. His father did not suspect that Sheldon was about to end his life. His father asked him why he wanted to commit suicide? He then took a walk while Sheldon advise him. "Life is like a novel," said his father. "Full of suspense.
      You do not know what will happen until you open the pages. Every day is a different page, Sidney, and every day can be full of surprises, you never know what will be there next page before you open it, "said his father. From that moment live vibrant .The words Sheldon said it continues to move Sheldon is remembered until dusk.

    The story above suggests the importance of developing a vision in life. If you do not have a vision, life easily shaken, without direction, and tend to surrender to bad state when it comes. One way in order to implement the vision is to start something with the ultimate goal. Mohamad Ramzan, provides an illustration of that.
     He described with the goal in a soccer game. The match will take place inconsequential and boring if there is no goal, no target is about to go. The same thing in life. The storyline of life from now until the end there will not be inconsequential and boring if we have a clear purpose in life.

    All our life's purpose will only be enjoyed if we frame the results within the time limits and target criteria are clear. How we live is actually centered on the ultimate goal that we set today. From the ultimate goal that we will determine the best route we should go to the next set of strategies and the right to live ammunition.
  With reflect on the events experienced by Sheldon above, the explanation Ramdan find significance. Ramdan said that people who do not have design a clear road map of life often find themselves in a state of confusion because it does not have a clear direction of life, feeling empty for not doing something appropriate interest, desperate because of a lack of preparation to undergo an extreme lifestyle, to the blame God or fate because they feel unfairly treated.

Proactive

   He reminded that in times of adverse events we must guard against the reactive . People not inclined to let outside influences to control their responses. Reactive people will always put himself as a victim of negative and positive stimuli when they discovered the fact that apparently the result of their response did not benefit him.Instead, we must be proactive proactive because people understand that he has the power to control the response to the stimulus that it faces. For them, both negative and positive stimulus still leaves room that can be used to specify options in responding. Ramdan practicing it. Barely one month resigned from the company where she worked, she felt how hard life.

   Where previously only delegate work to subordinates, while pioneering new business as a consultant, he should be involved 100% in all the detail work. At the time he felt exhausted and desperate because it's so hard to get clients, all of a sudden a friend called and offered a job with a salary position and tempting enough for a man who was hit hard as he did at that time.
     
       When in a dilemma that, he suddenly reminded of the ultimate goal of a desire to become a consultant and trainer in the field of science of leadership (leadership). When he returned to the employee, perhaps the problems he faces when it will instantly disappear, but maybe he'll never get to the final destiny of her dreams. After ship, he is only tied to the pier. Shelter from the waves of the real potential to bring it to an island of hope. ?